Abuse

What issues do I work with ?

• Very many people who come to us have experienced various forms of abuse.
• I work mostly with establishing a good sexuality by experienced abuse.
• While not seeking direct help for abuse and the trauma that can be associated with assault, it could be natural to talk about the assault as part of the process.
• Sexual abuse destroys sexuality. This can be yourself but also your partner.
• Painful feelings related to sexual abuse in childhood and in adulthood When sexual abuse is detected it can be very difficult if you notice that your child has been abused
• When memories of the abuse come to the surface Trauma Treatment related to counseling and body awareness can be very effective.
• Have you committed or thinking of committing abuse against some Fovalte thoughts about sexuality related to children.
• If you have a pedophile orientation and want to speak to a teraput about this. We  can help you.
• Incest

Abuses

In our culture, we learn that sexuality is private, and ideally we learn that children have the right to develop their sexuality in peace for the needs of adults. One in every four children experience sexual abuse, this is an expression of lack of socialization and cultivation of sexuality. Children who are invaded by adult sexual needs in an environment where they have not yet established a sexuality of their own, learn to adjust emotionally to satisfy the needs of others for their own good. They learn wrongly to set limits about what the others can afford, and they learn to tolerate being in situations where new violations occur. People who are exposed to unwanted sexual acts, often feel that they themselves are to blame. Many people think they could have done something different to prevent the assault. This is part of the process of trying to understand what happened and why. To understand why someone abuses others is very difficult, especially because they perform criminal acts against others that most of us would never even do. Abuse is always gripper guilt. Sometimes the body can show signs of desire, even during an assault. Many feel guilty about this, and feel betrayed by their own body. This can make you feel like an accomplice to the assault, or that one is not worthy of help afterwards. It is important to remember that your body reacts so because it is used to respond to touch, and because the body is made in a way that allows touching of certain body parts associated with positive feeling of pleasure. Older people who abuse children, often use this to manipulate the child into believing that they are an accomplice in the assault. Those feelings of wanting or bodily reactions occur, does not mean saying yes to an assault.