Arousal pattern and fetishes
The issues I work with
- If you have a firing pattern that is inappropriate, that inflicts a lot of shame and guilt, or that simply makes life difficult.
- I can help you change and create new firing patterns if you cannot manage this alone.
- Do you know your ignition pattern?
- Which sexual preferences do you have.
- Do you get aroused about something you do not dare tell your partner.
- Does your partner have ignition patterns that you are struggling to comply with.
- Do you understand what turns your partner on.
- Do you get aroused about something that is difficult to combine with the relationship you are in.
- Struggling to tell your partner what turns you on.
- Want to be in relationships with several partners simultaneously.
- Want an open relationship.
- Are you in an open relationship and experiencing some challenges with this
- Do you have a fetish that is difficult to manage.
- Have shame associated with the other people or a fetish you have.
- Do you have the urge to expose yourself or have shown your self naked.
Arousal Pattern
The individual ignition patterns established through the sexual process and personal preference is the result of embossing, education and maturation. Most brand patterns develop during the puberty period, where hormones speed up sexual activity.Sexual ignition patterns are dependent on many factors. The first conscious experience of sexual arousal may form a prototype for a later firing pattern. Sexual arousal is usually followed by a sexual response. Although there are many factors that will be conducive to the establishment of a sexual response, once it is established and later awakened by a tiny and subconscious piece of association. There are a multitude of opportunities to sexually arouse, but each individual develops throughout life separate preferences or patterns of sexual arousal. Often, positive sexual preferences form the basis for subsequent preferences.
The shame arousal pattern
The possibilities for erotic or sexual arousal also covers a wide range of patterns. Most are more or less fetishistic in personal firing patterns. Certain signals turn us on more easily than others. Sometimes people develop singular opportunities for sexual arousal and for example only light on particular objects. Many establish the basis for the firing pattern earlier than puberty and relate them to sexuality of various objects such as diapers, urine, rubber, leather etc.. It seems that the ignition patterns of some are stable and unchanging, while others are subject to development and change. Research on the use of pornography for example, shows that it is common for young boys using pornographic material to ignite arousal in early puberty, while the interest in pornography decreases as they develop sexual relationships with living partners. Precocious ignition pattern seems to be stalled because they are considered to be sinful or sickly. That leaves them with unusual firing patterns in shameful position where cognitive and emotional processing are very common. What are the possibilities and limitations each one of us has in relationships to ignite sexually?
Fantasies
Fantasies can give you insight into your sexual preferences. Fantasies may vary from person to person
Polygamy
Polygamy (English polygamy) denotes to have more lovers at the same time, as everyone involved knows and accepts. It allows for multiple simultaneous, intimate and trusting love affairs, which normally include sex, but not necessarily. People who are capable of having such conditions, represents itself as a “polygamorous” colloquially like abbreviated to “poly”. Polygamy is often described as consensual, ethical, or responsible non-monogamy. The term used sometimes broadly when referring to sexual relationships or romantic relationships that are not sexually exclusive, but there is disagreement on how broadly it applies. However, there is great emphasis on ethics, honesty and transparency. The term can also be used as an umbrella term that includes poluamori, polyseksualitet, polyfidelitet (faithfulness to several) and all aspects of love, more or less detached from the others, as long as there is talk of more involved. Polygamy refers also to a network or a subculture, where those involved want and select open relationship where you give each other support through discussions and exchange of experiences. Polygamy questions the relationship as the only form of cohabitation, and opens the way for those involved to have several love affairs simultaneously.
Sexual desire and firing on objects mm. (Fetishism)
This is sexual arousal to objects, often clothing. Many people like sexy clothes, often in leather, latex or rubber. There are also many other forms of fetishism. Generally one can say that all objects and materials have their own fetishism with their own name.
Foot fetishism
Foot fetishism is a pronounced sexual interest in feet. It is the most common form of sexual fetishism for body parts outside that of breasts and genitals.
BDSM
BDSM is a range of erotic practices or RPG that involve bondage, domination and submission, sadomasochism and other interpersonal dynamics. Given the wide range of practices, some people do not regard themselves as a BDSMer although they are engaged with practice BDSM, inclusion in the BDSM community or subculture is usually dependent on self-identification and shared experience. Interest in BDSM may vary from a one-time experiment to a lifestyle.
Exhibitionism (Show yourself naked)
Exhibitionism is the need for others to see you naked. (Some need to show off and others need the freedom feeling. Sexual deviation implies that sexual satisfaction is best achieved, only by exposing the genitals to an unsuspecting person, usually a stranger of the opposite sex.
Sexual domination
Sexual domination is a sexual role play where one or more persons exercising coercion or forced consent, to one or more other persons. Dominance is in a sexual context something erotic and sexual, where one party is dominant and the other submissive. It is based on the parties become sexually aroused in their respective roles. Dominance is one of the elements involved in BDSM. Sexual domination is not necessarily violent or painful.
Sexual sadism (Inflict pain as part of sexuality)
Sadomasochism is a sexual activity which essentially is an act concerned with dominating others or even being dominated, and / or to give or suffer pain. The sexual act is the basis, but all the activities within the SM may not necessarily give sexual pleasure. It is fundamental in SM that this takes place voluntarily.
Voyeurism (watching, watch)
Voyerism- sexual pleasure by watching others.
Bondage (Bound, chained mm.)
Bondage (from Anglo-Latin “bondagium”) is a sexual practice where the one party is bound, chained or otherwise gets hampered or granted a limited ability to move freely. Bondage is often an important element in the practice of BDSM. It has not been proven to have any connection between either traumatic childhood or mental health problems, and to kindle sexual BDSM. sexual masochism Receive pain as part of sexuality
Sexual masochism
Receive pain as part of sexuality Trolism Some others have sex with your partner when you watch or secretly watch
Partialism
Is when the need is concentrated on a specific part of the body
Axillisme
For some traditional body parts get a little too traditional or boring, and it is apparently only the imagination that limits what part of the body you can have sex with. Axillisme the name for people who prefer to have sex in the armpits.
Transvesric fetishism
You are sexually aroused by crossdressers
Telescatalogy
You called randomly to be excited by talking with them and talking with them sexually
Abstinece You will be excited by being denied sex. Builds energy.
Urolagny
You will be excited by being peed on
Coprofili
Can Kindle to be pooped on and on stools.
Klismaphilia
Sexually aroused by the Adhesive
Emetophilia Sexually aroused by the cranking
Frotterism
That by hanging himself or others in public places Iastophilia Be sexually aroused by watching people being raped
Alogolagny
To be excited by pain
Aspfyksiofili
Controlling breathing and selvkveling
Necrophilia
Be excited by dead people
Zoophilia
Be excited by animals and have sex with animals. It is important that you consider different type of infection that can spread. It is also strictly prohibited to perform in Norway. It is not so strict in other countries such as in rural Brazil.
Efebofilia
Being excited by teenagers and youth hirsutism The lighting of the body hair
Vorarephilia
It igniting eating other people (Cannibalism)
Infantilie
Becoming a baby, act like the baby.
Autonepiofili